Who Plans The Hen Party?
If you're a bride to be or going to be going on a hen night, you might be wondering:
who organises the hen party?
Typically, the hen party will be organised by the bridesmaid, the chief bridesmaid or a close friend to the bride.
A lot of the time, this will be done with a bit of a collaboration with the bride, as there could be different friends groups involved, and to get input from the bride to the kind of hen do she actually wants to have.
It does not have to be one of those options, and there's plenty of others who might be willing to organise the big night.
The Chief Bridesmaid / Maid Of Honour Plans The Hen Party
It is common for the chief bridesmaid, or maid of honour sometimes along with the other girls in the group to plan the hen party.
There's also the option of having a hen party abroad, which can be tough to organise. You'll have to budget for everyone, and make sure that it's affordable and suitable for all ages and types of people.
The Mother Of The Bride
If you're got a cool mum, you might task her with organising your hen party. If you think she's up for it, it could be something that she enjoys.
She can invite all your friends, bridesmaids and everyone you want, and plan something for everyone.
If you have people of mixed ages this could be a good idea, as she'll probably be great at planning activities which everyone will enjoy.
The Bride Organises Her Own Hen Party
It is not uncommon for the bride to organise their own hen party. Some may say that is sad, but if you organise your own hen do, you can have more control over what you want to do, and since it's your night, you can plan anything you like.
Your hens may have some little surprises in store for you, but planning the party yourself you can set the general tone and decide what you want to do.
Generally the bride to be has enough to organise with the wedding and usually honeymoon, so sometimes it's better to lift the burden of the hen party and let someone else organise it.
Whoever organises your hen party, it's sure to be a good time. If you go down the route of organising your own, it could take up a lot of your time and cause some stress, depending on the size.
You can check out our guide to planning a hen party if you're looking for ideas.
It could be a good idea to let the maid of honour, close friends or bridesmaids organise the bulk of the hen do, with the bride letting them know the style of hen night she wants.
The benefit is that you'll be surprised, hopefully pleasantly, just make sure that the person you choose to organise it knows you well.